{"id":1884,"date":"2014-02-11T04:28:14","date_gmt":"2014-02-11T09:28:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/?p=1884"},"modified":"2014-02-09T09:13:06","modified_gmt":"2014-02-09T14:13:06","slug":"what-is-your-spouses-role-in-your-job-search","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/what-is-your-spouses-role-in-your-job-search\/","title":{"rendered":"What is your spouse&#8217;s role in your job search?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/what-is-your-spouses-role-in-your-job-search\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"button_count\"  size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div><p><a href=\"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/cindy-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-1900\" style=\"margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/cindy-2.jpg\" width=\"192\" height=\"168\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>A leader may not have answers to all the questions, but knows how to ask the right questions<\/em>\u201d ~ Unknown<\/p>\n<p>The above quote came to mind as I recently concluded a call with a former client. \u00a0He called to ask assistance with a challenging situation &#8212; he and his spouse were both currently unemployed.<\/p>\n<p>With both of their children in college, they are empty nesters and felt at a crossroads. \u00a0They decided they wanted to talk to a career coach <em>together<\/em>. \u00a0This was a new request for me. \u00a0We agreed to set up a call where the three of us would discuss their specific situation and goals and determine if I, or someone in my network, might be able to assist them.<\/p>\n<p>Oftentimes the stress of a job search can be exacerbated by the assumptions or expectations of a spouse\/partner or other family member. \u00a0Having clear, calm, thoughtful conversations with your spouse or partner is one way to address this challenge. \u00a0<strong>Here are some powerful questions you can use to guide such a conversation:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What are your concerns about my being without a job at this time?<\/li>\n<li>What are your hopes [or fears, or concerns] about the next position I will land?<\/li>\n<li>What type of financial planning or adjustments do you think are necessary at this time?<\/li>\n<li>In what timeframe do you feel we should review our financial situation?<\/li>\n<li>How would you like to be informed of my job search status?<\/li>\n<li>How would you like to help [or be involved] in my job search process?<\/li>\n<li>How will you feel if I am unable to find a job with similar status or salary?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>An open conversation does not always result in immediate take-aways or agreements, but it will open the door to ongoing conversations that will will clarify your direction and help create a vision to inform your long-term career success.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a powerful question to add to the list above? 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