{"id":2089,"date":"2014-07-29T05:05:28","date_gmt":"2014-07-29T09:05:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/?p=2089"},"modified":"2014-08-04T05:37:20","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T09:37:20","slug":"let-go-to-land","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/let-go-to-land\/","title":{"rendered":"Let GO to Land"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/let-go-to-land\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"button_count\"  size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div><div><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-2117\" src=\"http:\/\/accelerateyoursearchnow.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/journal.jpg\" alt=\"journal\" width=\"286\" height=\"176\" \/><\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Does your past or present behavior impact your job search?<\/p>\n<p>Is the hurt, anger, and frustration you feel impacting\u00a0your search?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe. \u00a0Past behavior is a solid indicator of how you will perform in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Unsettled emotions will show up when you least expect them &#8212; in an interview or during an important conversation. \u00a0At these times your emotions may be evident and misunderstood. \u00a0It is not always clear to you, or others, the impact your emotions have on your search.<\/p>\n<p>The loss of a job brings up many emotions. \u00a0You will grieve. \u00a0It is a loss. \u00a0Go ahead and grieve.<\/p>\n<p>You may need to forgive someone. \u00a0If so, I encourage you to do so. \u00a0I am not an expert on forgiveness, but I do know the power forgiveness has had in my life. There are many experts. \u00a0If you need one to help you forgive, seek out that assistance.<\/p>\n<p>A very powerful tool in this process is journaling. \u00a0Spend 5 to 10 minutes per day writing down how you feel about your job search. \u00a0This is not about documenting what you are doing, but rather what you are feeling. \u00a0It will allow your feelings to come to the surface and help you see the situation more clearly. \u00a0Don&#8217;t type, write. \u00a0Set a timer. \u00a0Do not edit, correct or judge &#8212; just write. \u00a0When the time is up, move on to the other tasks of your day.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, a client share with me a blind spot he had uncovered after only one week of journaling. \u00a0He felt it may have impacted his last 6 interviews! \u00a0The sadness he was feeling did not come from the job loss, but rather the loss of connections within his prior organization. \u00a0He realized these feelings were causing him to distance himself from people. \u00a0The realization was very powerful for him.<\/p>\n<p>You never know what you might discover (or not). \u00a0The power of letting your feelings flow via your pen each day is amazing. \u00a0Give it a shot and let me know the impact it has on you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>Have an amazing week!<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Does your past or present behavior impact your job search? Is the hurt, anger, and frustration you feel impacting\u00a0your search? Maybe. \u00a0Past behavior is a solid indicator of how you will perform in the future. 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