Does your past or present behavior impact your job search? Is the hurt, anger, frustration you feel hurting your search?
Yes, I believe these things will impact your search. I see and work with people all the time that are holding on to something that is impacting their job search. That something might be anger about losing a job, how the end occurred, or sadness about how they did or did not handle something.
For many we are at least somewhat defined by where we work and live, the work we do, and our jobs. When a job ends for whatever reason, there are emotions tied to that ending. If you are happily moving on you will have different emotions than if the end was not in your control.
Some call the behavior that impacts you and your life karma, some call it fate, or luck, whatever the name you use for this, you need to look at and understand your thoughts control your behavior, habits and actions. So if your thoughts and behavior are not aligned with what you want and where you want to go, you create push pull and in your energetic vibration. This will impact your search.
For some it keeps you for getting clear on what you want or need to do, for others it shows up in a way that makes other not trust you. If an employer doesn’t trust that there is upside to hiring you, the bottom line is the employer will not hire you.
A few weeks ago, I wrote about Joe and his blind spots. Most of us know or have some awareness of our blind spots, our strengths, and our weaknesses, yet we often find it hard to sort this all out and move forward to do what we need to do.
Here is a tip to help you. Set aside a day write down your feelings about your job lose and job search. If you are mad write down why you are mad; if you are sad, why you are sad. Write, write, and write. At the end of the day think about what you where you are and what you want to do about where you are. Think about where you are out of alignment or out of integrity with yourself.
Now decide what you want to do about these areas. Decide what you want and create energetic alignment. If you want help, then offer help to others. Letting go of the things you are holding on to that are impacting your search will change your behavior and the energy around your search and your transition.
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