“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” ~ Oprah Winfrey
Happy Thanksgiving!
In the U.S., many are making plans for Thanksgiving Day! May your celebration be special and include time for quiet reflection, gratitude for your blessings and simple moments of appreciation for all you have been given.
With Thanksgiving, the holiday season is officially underway. It is a great time to expand your network and to Accelerate Your Search. Holiday and family gatherings provide opportunities to connect and nurture relationships within your network.
Here are four tips to maximize each gathering during the holiday season:
- Give. Be prepared to give something to everyone you meet. A smile, a kind word, a connection or your time — these are wonderful gifts.
- Ask questions and listen. Ask others questions about what they enjoy about the season or what exciting things are happening in their lives. Listen carefully and ask follow-up questions. Avoid offering helpful suggestions/ideas unless specifically asked.
- Market yourself. But, don’t beg for a job or oversell! Be prepared to answer the question “What do you do?” Avoid saying, “I am unemployed” or “I am looking for a job.” Instead share what you do and how you add value. Exchange business cards when appropriate and don’t forget to follow up.
- Manners Matter. Take your manners and a positive attitude to each event. Be sure to thank the event host. Yes — even Aunt Sally — your less than favorite person. Show appreciation for the work and effort put into planning and hosting the event. When appropriate, prepare and deliver simple, unique and fun gifts to the host.
Go network, enjoy and have fun! Avoid negative comments or conversations. Be open to the opportunities before you and maintain an attitude of gratitude and appreciation. Your upbeat attitude will prove contagious and you will expand your network and Accelerate Your Search.
