summerIntentions will transform your career, your search and your life.

Summer is here.  Look around.  There are signs of the season change everywhere.  Mother Nature is calling us to be outside and to enjoy all she offers.

Warm, longer days.  Bold greens, bright yellows and blooming flowers.  Nature changes her look and her intention for each season and she invites action.

What do you notice?  Nothing?  Maybe that is a blind spot for you!!

When you notice things you haven’t seen before or something grabs your attention, pause to reflect.  Be curious or explore.

You might be surprised what you learn.  Or what you view in a different and/or interesting manner.

There is amazing freedom and forward movement in simple changes, a pause or a simple intention.

Make one intentional change.  Do one thing different and expect a different result [your intention].  See what happens.  Notice the transformation!

If you are anything like I was in the past, you are saying, “Okay, but what intention?”

Here is a simple July assignment: Update your email signature block.

You use email daily in your job search, right?  If you have had the same email signature for sometime . . . CHANGE IT!

Create a new look and feel for your email signature block.

Set an intention for this action to have an impact in your daily life.  An intention could be:  “All my emails will be answered.  I am positively looking forward to having all my emails answered.”

Be careful here — this intention is not a goal.  It does not get measured or tracked.  Just set it and release it.   It’s an intention.

Intentions are mindful, present thoughts, set and released.

If you are a results driven person like me – be careful – stop and release the intention.  It does not need an action plan or a method to track the results.

Be present.  Watch and note what happens.

Have you had great experiences setting intentions?  Do you struggle?  Both have occurred for me.

Looking forward to hearing your stories and comments.  Please share them below.

Do you want support setting intentions?  Are you ready for your amazing transformation?   If so, I am happy to help, give me a call.  Talk to you soon.

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land dream job

 

 

The answer to that question is simple — at least from my point of view.  Landing a DREAM job always depends on:  you, the labor market and what actions you are willing to take.

I suggest you first define what a dream job is for you.  Here is my view of what a dream job is:

  • Delivers satisfaction, supports your goals, and its sense of purpose provides
  • Realistic growth and challenge, helps you grow as a human being,
  • Energizes you more than not, offers
  • Alignment with your values, vision, mission, and unique value,
  • Moves you to offer the world your best. (TM)

If your definition is similar, I can help you.  Here is a simple 5-step formula to help you land your DREAM job:

  1. Determine quickly the direction you will go.
  2. Realistically look at your budget, needs, and wants for the long-term and short-term and set a timeline to achieve your DREAM
  3. Evaluate your career, who you are, what you offer and the marketplace.
  4. Ask for what you want, be willing to accept ‘”No” for an answer, and keep asking.
  5. Move forward with intention every day.  Daily focused action is required to achieve your DREAM job and hear, “You’re hired!”

Does it sound too simple?   It is simple, yet it requires real work.

Landing your DREAM job is not hard.  What’s hard is making the commitment to execute each step in the formula and to take needed action daily.

Those who make a decision and take action do land a dream job.  They land what they want — quickly and with less stress.  What are you waiting for?

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dream job

For decades I have been working with people, in one aspect or another, helping them shape and build sustainable careers.  As an employee, manager, leader, trainer, human resource professional, and executive coach I have seen and helped guide thousands of people toward their dream job or dream career.

Many in the career-coaching world, including me, talk about and encourage others (especially those who find themselves unemployed) to seek a dream job.

Whether you are seeking a new job because you are unemployed or if you are looking to move on from your current position, I find it valuable to define “dream job” so as to create a common understanding.

What is a DREAM job?

A dream job:

Delivers satisfaction, supports your goals, and its sense of purpose provides

Realistic growth and challenge, helps you grow as a human being,

Energizes you more than not, offers

Alignment with your values, vision, mission, and unique value,

Moves you to offer the world your best. (TM)

 

That is how I define a “dream job.”   What’s your idea of a dream job?

I’d love to know.  Hope you will share your thoughts in the comments below.

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holiday blues

The holiday rush is on.  The New Year is right around the corner.

This season is full of activities, energy and hope.  But, that is not always the case for unemployed people searching for a new job.

In the United States, we still have millions of unemployed or underemployed people — many of who feel lost, forgotten and sad.

Businesses, in all regions, are still struggling to find employees with the skills they need.

The holiday season presents challenges for both employers and potential candidates.  For many job seekers, the holiday season can intensify emotions, stifle momentum or even bring discouragement to an all-time high.

I have helped thousands of people with their job search and hundreds of top executives.  No matter what your level, expertise or industry almost all job seekers experience dry spells, dips in results, and times when confidence and hope seem lost.

If you have been unemployed for any period of time, there are points where you may need more than job search help.  Please seek assistance when you need it.  Little obstacles not resolved can turn into big barriers to your next job.

Whether you are in a state of depression and need medical help or need help with heat/food there are many resources.  Many you will never know about if you don’t ask for help.  There is no disgrace in asking for assistance.  We all need help in some form during our lives.

If you are experiencing a dip in expected results or feel like you have “hit the wall” in your job search, don’t worry, it is not uncommon.  Below are a few tips to ward off the blues or at least help you regain your momentum.

1.   Know your what you offer.

Learn how the market views your offering and who needs your skills and experience.

Be willing to flex your approach to the market.  Being open and realistic about your local market can help you maintain your focus and manage your fears.

Statistically, the time it takes to become re-employed has changed from 2007 to 2014.  If you want to learn more, here is a presentation for MIT Alumni by Ofer Sharone, a leading researcher in this area.

2.  Care for yourself.  

A job search can be stressful.  Create a plan that includes healthy nutrition, exercise and down time.  Take mini-breaks daily to relax and enjoy the fresh air. Breathe — providing oxygen to your brain has been proven to help you think more clearly.

Learn to meditate and/or visualize your actions.  Either, or both, help!

3.  Build and maintain a support system.

Stress and/or focused activity often causes humans to draw inward.  Most humans function best within a community.

Think about work teams and life structures, like our cities and towns.  People are social creatures and like to help, share and want others to be successful.

The U.S. culture also teaches us not to butt in.  So if you don’t reach out and ask for help you may find that the people around you are shy about offering assistance.

Ask.  You will be surprised what like-minded people will share.

Talk.  Conversations open many doors.

Join.  Professional groups, support groups and engage in your community.

Give.  Share your expertise or lessons learned.  Thank those who help you.

Receive.  Accept from those who support you.  You can always set aside an idea that does not work.  However, if you reject or are unwilling to receive, the flow of support may stop.

4.  Create a plan, take action, evaluate at benchmarks.

Finding a job requires you to market yourself.  Create a marketing plan with goals, action items and evaluation benchmarks.

Pick 3 action items daily and execute them.  Ensure 70% or more of your actions involve engaging people.  Neither voicemail nor email count as engaging people.  Interacting with people face-to-face, by phone or in groups is critical to generating ideas, support and opportunities.

Record your actions and your results and evaluate against your benchmarks/goals.

Recruit a mentor, coach, friend, family member or fellow job seeker to help you stay accountable to your goals — report to them each time a benchmark is reached.

5.  Be creative and consider alternatives.

Understand that some goals will not be achieved and others may not materialize on your timeframe.

Think about options.  How can you expand your network?   How can you create alternative income streams?  What can you do that you did not consider at the start of your search?

Test your views about temporary assignments or contract positions.  Test your beliefs about security and job tenure.

I often hear people speak about permanent or full-time jobs.  What does that mean to you?  What does that mean in the marketplace?

Be honest with yourself.  What is permanent?  If we are honest with ourselves, we realize no job is ever permanent — change happens all the time.

6.  Spend your time wisely and with the right people.

Not all tasks or people are as effective as others.  Yes, people do find jobs via job boards online, however, it is not the most common source of job leads.

Some people are helpful and positive and others are not.  When possible, stay away from negative people and situations.  If you are feeling blue, don’t spend your time with other sad or negative people.  Research shows that your body will sync with the vibrations around you.  Sad music creates a sad mood.  Upbeat music lifts the vibration of a room.

The same is true with people.  If there are people in your life that bring you down or impact your job search in a negative manner take a break from these people.

7.  Monitor your attitude.

You control how you view and react to the world.  Resilience and confidence are important.   Each are built on skills you can practice and a mindset you can develop.

Add things to your life (and your job search schedule) that bring you joy, hope and a sense of gratitude.  A simple quote or photo at the beginning of each day can lift your mood.

Understand you will have days and periods of time where your job search will plateau or drag.  Maintain focus on activities that garner results.  When you need help, seek a qualified counselor or career coach.  Build a team that provides encouragement and guidance.

Should the job search holiday blues grip you, my hope is that these tips will help.  Brighter days are ahead.  You can regain your momentum.

Have you beat the holiday blues?  Do you a tip or action that helped you?

Please share it below.  Your share might be the gift another reader needs this season.

Anyone fighting the holiday job search blues who calls me this week will receive a 30-minute one-on-one phone session during the week.  We will focus on action steps to accelerate your search and regain your momentum.  If you need help, pick up the phone.

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B imageApril is bringing me a very unique adventure — more to follow on that soon!  Part of my adventure includes spending fun time with amazing people and, as such, I asked a few of them to guest post on this blog and share their thoughts on interviewing, building great teams and other relevant topics.

The April guest posts focus on  “The B’s of Interviewing” — tried and true tips to ace your interview.

 So, you have an interview set up – great! Now what? Uncertain what to do next?  Most people are. As a job seeker and as an employer, I’ve always found interviews challenging.  As a job seeker, you have one shot to make a good impression, to relate all the good things you bring to the table, why you are the perfect solution for the employer’s problem, and how your experience is worth tons of their money!  As an interviewer, you have a limited amount of time with each candidate and you’re talking to several.  You have to get to the good stuff quickly because time is money and bad hiring decisions are expensive!  Hmmmm . . . it looks like both sides have something in common, doesn’t it?

Let’s get at some tips to help you prepare for a knockout performance in your interview.  The tips are compiled from my experience on both sides of the table.  I do want to confess that I’ve never particularly liked interviews, but once I began to view them as simple conversations the whole process changed for me.

Let’s prepare you for your conversations.  My first “B” tip is:

Be on time.  I know, I know.  Still happens, though — candidates fail to account for weather, traffic, poor directions, etc.  My conversations with late candidates are very brief.  I confirm the time of our appointment, then tell them that being on time is a non-negotiable expectation on my team.  I tell them it’s not a fit as I escort them to the door.  If you aren’t able to get to the interview on time, what makes me think you’ll show up to work on time?  Besides, being early has its advantages.  You have an opportunity to talk to the receptionist, the administrative assistant or the VP you met in the elevator.  You have time to mentally go over last minute preparations or fine tune your questions.  There’s zero downside to being early.

So, “B” on time next week when I share with you the next B of Interviewing!

 

-Mark Key is a retail professional known for driving results in diverse and challenging retail segments.  Mark’s interviewing insights come from companies big and small — having worked with organizations with just a few employees to Fortune 100 companies.

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tight rope“Wherever there is danger, there lurks opportunity; whenever there is opportunity, there lurks danger. The two are inseparable. They go together.“~ Earl Nightingale

Have you ever experienced one of those phone calls when you hear someone’s voice and immediately sense danger or distress?

I’ve had those calls.  Often they begin with a simple request like, “Hi, I need some help . . . ”  I feel the distress or danger and my thoughts begin to race.  What’s the danger?  Where is this person? And so on.  The distress in their voice and the energy on those calls can be very intense.  Luckily, I usually know within a few seconds that no one is physical danger and no on was injured.

When I reflect back on the calls, the quote above almost always comes to mind and is a reminder that the line between danger and opportunity is very thin.

Preparation and awareness are the key to creating the best outcomes — to turning danger into opportunity.  And, in business and our careers in particular, we often turn those “thin” moments into unique situations — presenting us with better than envisioned outcomes, connections and profitable opportunities.  Applying this preparation and awareness to our knowledge creates focus and the successful outcomes others may view simply as luck.

For a long time I sought the awareness I saw in others — awareness I thought was just easy luck.  Then I discovered I had the awareness I needed, yet too often I ignored it or simply forgot to pay attention to it.  The impact?  Loads of missed opportunities right at my fingertips, ripe for the taking.

My first coach helped me discover why I ignored the great stuff.  It turned out to be a simple issue, though one I could not have seen without help.  Now, my nutrition coach is helping me tackle why I ‘forget’ self care — hydration, rest and better nourishment.  Their coaching makes me better prepared, creating the focus and awareness I once thought was simply luck.

Recently, a client, whose goals were to create focus and successful outcomes, opened with the distress call, “Hi, I need some help . . .”  Through our interaction he tapped into his internal awareness and built into his search what he called a “lifeline call” to help him deal with the thin points.  Using his lifeline, he turned an unexpected question about relocation into an opportunity, then a second interview and through a continued conversation, a great offer.

Are you aware of the opportunities around you?  Are you tapping into them?

 Are you ignoring or overlooking opportunities because you only see danger?

 Are you creating your own “luck” or just hoping for the best?

 Have you built a support network so you can place the “lifeline” call if you need to ?

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“There are only 3 colors, 10 digits, and 7 notes; it’s what we do with them that’s important.” ~ Ruth Ross

AMBITION: The eager or strong desire to achieve something.

Does your job search reflect your ambition?

Would you be convicted by clear and compelling evidence of your ambition to land the job you want?

Or is there only the slimmest evidence available to demonstrate your intent?  Think about it!

If others were ask to share what you do, how you do it, and the job you want to land, could they share it?

Do you project the end result?  Do you clearly state your end goal or do others need to guess what you do, what value you might add, or if you really could get much of anything done?

What stories are you telling?  What evidence are you presenting?

What are you doing with 3 colors, 10 digits, or 7 notes?

What are you doing with your skills, talent, ability and experience?

Is there evidence of your ambition to land the job you want?

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Focus is critical for many tasks and activities.  Your job search is one of those activities where shifting your attention, zig-zagging and shifting your attention from one thing to another without full engagement not only does not net the fastest results it can be deadly to your career.

On the highway recently I was reminded just how deadly just a little shift in focus can be, when I shifted my focus to my directions, then a map and away from the traffic around me.  I did avoid a mishap, yet those seconds of lost focus cost me hours and could have been deadly.  Just as engagement is critical to driving, it is also critical to prevent the slow death of your career.

According to productivity experts it can take 4 to 15 minutes to recover and refocus depending on the complexity of the task and other variables such as your mindset, etc.  That consistent recovery and refocus in time within your job search is inefficient and ineffective.  It may also be the reason you miss or overlook the opportunity right in front of you. 

The impact of lack of focus may be frustration, feeling lost or disappointed.  Those emotions may then create other distractions.

There are three steps to providing CPR to your job search, gaining focus and avoiding the slow costly death of your career.  Those steps are: 1) assess where you are and decide where you want to be, 2) plan how to get there and 3) execute the tasks, activities needed to get where you want to be. 

Continued shifting of focus, zig-zagging, doing too much or diffusing attention during your job search may not just be costing you time, and causing stress, it could also be deadly to your career.  Stale skills are viewed as less valuable in the market; time and stress take other tolls on your mindset and your body.  Lack of focus has been the cause of death of more than one career; will it cause the death of yours?   

Where are you today?

Where do you want to be next week and next year?

What are you willing to do to be more focused in your job search?

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The hundred days of summer is just around the corner.  It is the time of year, when interesting and focused conversations with VPs, regional managers, area managers, managers and front line associates are often about the detailed plans and prep for the ”100 Days of Summer”. 

The hundred days or so between Memorial Day to Labor Day for many is a critical business season. Profits and success during the “100 days of Summer” can make or break the success of a business unit not just for the season but for the year.  Having, knowing and executing your plan is not hard but does take good communication, energy and thought.

Last week speaking to an executive looking for his next career opportunity I ask him, “What is your personal career plan for the “100 Days of Summer”, he looked at me and smiled, then said “I don’t have a plan, but I think I need one.”  Then he asked for a few suggestions as to how to develop his plan and we agreed to talk in a couple of days to discuss his plan in detail.

Here are some of the key things I suggest you think about and pull together for your “100 day” plan.  Assess where you are now, think about your value in the marketplace, your reputation, your niche, the  opportunities you want to target, clarify your vision, your career goal, and then create a plan for the next 100 days.

Don’t wing your job search and don’t overlook the critical 100 days ahead.

If you need help creating a plan, get it.

Think about your plan.  Summarize your plan in one page – that’s right – a one-page executive summary.

Want more information about completing your own “100 Day Plan” to land the job you want by Labor Day? 

Sign up and join me on the next Q & A call, ask your question and get an answer. 

If you are interested in taking action and moving forward and yet you have a question about your career, career transition or search, you can set up a 20 minute chat with me to get your question answered.

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“What you have to give is enough – if you give it with all your heart.”~ Chieko N. Okazaki

The quote above was shared with me by one of my mentors and I wanted to share it with you.  Enjoy it.

Every week, sometimes hundreds of times a week, I hear the questions Should I … or Do I need to … followed by: post my resume online, go back to school, retire, take less money, do a different job, change industries, change careers, quit my job, fire my boss, network with others, network online, and the list could go on and on.  Are you asking these questions?

What do you think my most common reply would be if you asked me one of these questions?  My reply would likely be to ask you the question – “What’s important to you?”

Yes, I know by the look on your face, you might be annoyed by my responding to your question with a question.  However usually that is the best place to start if you are asking yourself or someone else these types of questions about your job search or career transition.

First of all, may I remind you that unless, you lost your last job due to misconduct, or lack of your willingness to correct your work performance to meet your employer’s employment requirements, or your lack of willingness or ability to acquire a specific skill or skills your employer required, you were successful in your prior job.   Your experience, skills, knowledge and abilities are probably solid enough for you to be highly marketable and successful again in today’s job market.

Therefore, if you will spend a little time to reflect on your skills, experience and what is important to you before you jump in to a full blown marketing campaign and job search you will know what is important to you and you will be better prepared to accelerate your success.  If you test the market and determine that you do need help or are missing a skill to do what is important to you, you will be prepared to take the best action.

Be careful about using unanswered questions or other conditions as your excuse for inaction.  Are you using the economy, or not defining what’s important to you as an excuse not to move your job search forward?  You must get out into the job market in a BIG WAY!

Excuses, whatever they are can be a deep dark pit!  A costly pit and a pit filled with fear.    A job search can be scary.  You may feel hesitant as you first start to market yourself.  You may fear rejection, and you may fear making mistakes.  I get that – and by the way, you will be rejected and you will make mistakes!

Job searching has a learn-as-you-go component to it, the market place changes, things change, business needs change, and you change over time.  Get busy, get over having to learn everything before you start your job search, and marketing yourself for your next job.

Be willing to learn-as-you-go, to change what you are doing, or to stop doing the things that are not working for you.  Market YOU.  Get out there with who you are, what you have to offer, what makes you unique and different in the marketplace.

Stop using “Should I” or “Do I need to” questions as excuses.  Clarify what is important to you, stop making excuses, and communicate your value to the marketplace.

Excuses stop you dead in your tracks.  Stop making excuses.  Know what is important to you; communicate what you can do and how you are different.   You do have enough to give.

Will you give it with all your heart?

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